Have you ever been in a situation where you’re crushing on a guy who seems too good to be true?
You know, the one who seems to have all the right moves, the perfect words, and just the right amount of charm to make you swoon?
Well, I have been there, and let me tell you, it’s a rollercoaster of emotions.
But what happens when that same guy starts showing signs that he’s not just playing the field but actually falling for you?
It can be difficult to deduce his emotions, especially when he is known to be a player.
The whole event will be a mixture of scare and excitement, and you may not be able to decipher if he is really falling for you or it is all part of the game.
So, how do you know he has really changed his ways?
How do you know it is not a temporary thing?
I have been able to come up with a few points from conversing with some folks that fall into this category and here are signs a player is falling for you.
9 Sure Signs A Player Is Falling For You
1. He pays close attention to you
Generally, a player has no time to give time to know you intimately or pay attention to things beyond the things every other person can know.
However, if a player is falling for you, he will pay close attention to the little details and things that matter and will make you feel special.
He wants to know every detail and every intricate thing about you.
The things that make you tick the way you do.
He remembers details and remembers things about you that are important to you.
A player who is falling for you will want to learn as much about you as possible.
He will pay close attention to your stories and actively engage in conversations with you.
He will become laser-focused on you, and it’s a special kind of attention that you’ll definitely feel within you.
It’s not just about them being present in the moment with you but also actively listening and engaging with what you have to say.
2. He seeks out your company
When you are in love with someone, you want to spend time with them so you can get to know them better and find out if there’s a mutual connection between you.
A player is often busy with his own life and has a lot of options.
But in this circumstance, you find him making an effort to spend time with you by making plans to see you, calling you, or inviting you out.
He will want to share experiences with you so that he can get to know you better and find out if there’s something special between the two of you.
A player, by default, is selfish with his time and interests, so if you find him spending time with you, it is because he is beginning to nurture some kind of affection for you beyond the usual games.
He is showing a sign he is falling for you.
3. He becomes protective
Maybe you’re at a party together, and a guy starts hitting on you, and you find your guy stepping in to mark a territory, it is because he wants you for himself alone.
When a player cares for you, he might become more possessive or protective of you.
They may get jealous when they see you talking to other people or get defensive if someone else tries to make a move on you.
This kind of behavior shows that they’re starting to see you as more than just a temporary fling and that they want to be the one to take care of you and protect you.
It’s a big step in the direction of a more serious relationship.
4. He starts to bring up the future
Once your guy begins to get comfortable with you, he may start talking about things that go beyond the present moment.
He might talk about plans for the weekend or what he would like to do together in the future, hinting that he wants this relationship to last longer than a few weeks or months.
When you meet up with him for the evening out, he starts hinting at the next date.
When making future plans about his life, he carries you along with him in his decisions.
In other words, he starts to include you in his own personal life plans, which is a surefire sign that he sees you as part of his future.
This kind of behavior shows that your relationship is growing and becoming more long-term for him.
He is gradually falling for you and incorporating you into his life in a real way.
5. He invites you to meet his friends and family
When a man really likes you, he’ll want to introduce you to the important people in his life.
He may invite you out with his friends or family as a way of introducing you to them and showing that he is committed to your relationship.
He may still be a bit shy and hesitant at first, but it’s likely that you will pick up on his underlying feelings for you.
At the end of the day, it’s clear your relationship is more than just a casual fling – he is falling for you and ready to make your connection long-term.
If he is willing to put himself out there and introduce you to his inner circle, it’s a sure sign that he wants something real with you.
So take this moment as the opportunity it is.
Enjoy getting to know him on a deeper level and relish in all the love your relationship has blossomed into.
6. He listens when you talk
It’s an important sign that a man likes you if he takes the time to actually listen when you’re speaking.
He doesn’t just make small talk at this point.
He is genuinely interested in your day, your thoughts, and how you are feeling.
If he puts down his phone and turns towards you when you start talking, that’s a good sign he is engaged and values what you have to say.
It may seem like a small thing, but it shows he has respect for you and really cares about how things are going with your relationship.
If you find that your man listens to what you have to say, don’t take it for granted.
Let him know that his efforts are appreciated.
It’s a beautiful sign of his love and affection for you.
7. He shares his vulnerability
A man who used to be a player will not want to show his weakness to his partner.
But when you find that your man is willing to open up and share his innermost thoughts and feelings with you, it shows that he trusts you deeply.
It’s a sign of true emotional intimacy when he feels safe enough to let down his walls and show his vulnerability.
This is a wonderful sign that your relationship is becoming stronger and more meaningful over time.
So appreciate this side of him and let him know that you’re there for him whenever he needs you.
This is a sign of true love that will take your relationship to the next level.
8. He takes an active role in the relationship
One way to tell if your man loves you and he has fallen for you is if he takes an active role in the relationship.
He should want to be involved in all aspects of your life, from the day-to-day decisions to long-term plans.
He should want to know what’s important to you and be willing to work together towards mutual goals.
If he is invested in the relationship, it shows that you are both building something special and that he cares deeply about your bond.
This is a sign that he loves you and is willing to put in the effort required for a successful relationship.
Show him your appreciation and let him know just how much his active role in the relationship means to you!
9. He makes sacrifices for you
When someone truly loves another person, they are often willing to make sacrifices for them.
A man who is known to be a player will not make sacrifices because he knows that signifies commitment, and that is the last thing on his mind.
When you find out that he starts making certain sacrifices for you, it’s a sure sign that he loves you deeply.
He may start to give up certain activities in order for him to spend more time with you or turn down an opportunity so that you can have it instead.
These are all signs of his love and commitment and should be cherished.
When someone sacrifices something important for the one they love, it shows how deeply in love they are.
If your man is making sacrifices for you, take the time to acknowledge and appreciate it.