This is your ultimate masterclass to becoming an enchantress without using any special pills or potions.
Just kidding.
But it’s actually close to that.
There is a kind of woman most men become weak for, a woman who subtly gets under the skin and leaves the man panting after her.
If you’re looking for a surefire way to become that woman who wins a man over and becomes his Achilles heel, you’re in the right place.
Below are 11 things that make a man weak for a woman.
Learn and practice this and you’re sure going to win him over.
11 Things That Make a Man Weak for a Woman:
1. Confidence:
You think this is cliche until you meet a confident woman and see the powerful magnet that she is to everyone.
A woman who is self-assured and credible is a woman a man will easily fall for.
Her ability to be mettle and firm without showing any air of uncertainty about the amazing woman she is and the power she carries is second to none.
This is no doubt one striking trait that makes a man weak for a woman.
A woman who is sure of herself is appealing.
2. Kindness:
This one is a no-brainer.
Virtually everyone is susceptible to kind gestures; no one is immune to it.
Kindness and compassion are qualities that can melt a man’s heart and make him feel weak in the knees.
He’s just enchanted by the woman’s ability to be tenderhearted and benevolent.
I’ve met so many women who won their husbands’ hearts by just simple acts of kindness.
At the end of the day, we all want someone who is kind to us.
At the core of our being as humans, we crave care and benignity, and this is why women who are kind usually win.
They end up getting the man they want.
3. Genuine love:
Ever heard of the famous biblical quote, “Love never fails?”
It holds even in this case.
Genuine love is another thing that makes men weak for women.
When a woman genuinely loves a man and expresses it through kindness, affection, and loyalty, many times, the man can’t turn a deaf ear.
Love is an attractive force and is many times irresistible.
One of the most common expressions of love that seems to weaken a lot of men for their women is loyalty.
When a woman proves that she’s faithful and trustworthy, a man will feel deeply connected to her.
4. Supporting and believing in him:
I once heard a man say, “As a woman, one of the best gifts you can give to your man is to believe in him,” and most of the men present agreed that meeting echoed an agreement in unison.
Supporting and being by a man, especially when he needs it the most, is one way to his heart.
A woman who is supportive and encouraging can make a man feel like he can conquer the world.
This feeling is not one he’ll get everywhere, so when he finds such a woman, he holds on to her.
5. Being an exciting woman:
Men love fun and adventure, and they don’t meet women that match their energy every day.
So, if you’re a woman with a great sense of adventure and a willingness to try new things, you will make a man weak for you.
This is one of the reasons why side chicks will always be a thing.
Many times, the side chicks are adventurous women who know how to perfectly blend mysteriousness with excitement and adventure and keep the man coming back for more.
It’s just intriguing for most men when they find an exciting woman; it keeps them interested.
This doesn’t justify infidelity, but it’s just one of the reasons why some men might choose to have a side chick.
6. Respect:
Even though I don’t subscribe to the misogynistic view that respect is ultimately for men to feed and drink on, I believe that respect has a way of getting to most men.
Mutual respect is essential in any relationship and should be the culture.
But men specifically feel valued and appreciated when they’re respected.
Their ego is massaged, and they feel drawn to the woman responsible for it.
I have a friend who shows her husband a level of respect I consider excessive.
But the interesting part is that the man responds to her respect by respecting her in return and giving her everything she asks for.
He does whatever she says, and it’s obvious that she’s his weakness.
I saw that it worked for them and didn’t bother myself with my idea of a reasonable level of respect since it was not my marriage.
What I’m saying, in essence, is that communicating respect to a man in whatever language he understands respect to be is one way women have been getting to men’s hearts for a long time now.
I know this is a hack for you.
You’re welcome!
7. Intelligence:
I don’t mean to brag, but this is one quality I possess, and I’ve seen it draw men to me.
And not just any type of men – high-quality men who were willing to go to lengths for me.
Exuding brilliance and intelligence, particularly in how you live and speak as a woman, is one way to quickly become a man’s weakness.
As I write this post, I have a man in my DMs pleading for my attention and asking me to give him a chance even when I tell him I’m not available for a relationship.
He became interested in me after we talked for a while on about three occasions, and he was in awe of my unique and striking ability to hold engaging and intelligent conversations.
He felt very connected to me and was even comfortable enough to share more information with me than he would with an average person he had just met, simply because he said I was intelligent and mature in communicating.
A woman who is intelligent and can engage in meaningful conversations is attractive to many men.
8. Beauty and charm:
You thought I was going to keep talking about deep qualities alone?
Absolutely not.
Physical attraction is, of course, a factor in any romantic relationship, so ‘superficial’ things count here too.
Sometimes, all it takes to be a man’s weakness is to be physically attractive.
Ever heard of “pretty privilege?”
It is a thing and many women enjoy it.
A woman who looks good and has a banging body knows how to dress well to fit her figure, smells nice, and is sensual is the weakness of a lot of men.
It gets hotter if she’s his spec.
Men naturally find this appealing, and they can’t even hide it.
9. Sense of humor:
Everybody loves someone with a good sense of humor.
Having a good sense of humor is another thing that makes a man weak for a woman.
An effortlessly witty woman is magnetic; men can’t resist her.
This point isn’t saying you should desperately start trying to be funny.
That is not likely to work, and you stand the risk of looking like a clown.
What this point is saying is that if being funny is one of your natural traits, it’s a plus for you.
10. Softness
There’s something about a woman who understands and fully expresses her femininity.
I know we’ve talked about many qualities that represent being a boss lady, such as being strong and confident, but despite all of that, the woman must still hold on to her soft side.
There’s something about a woman who knows how to switch from being strong and independent to a soft girl who is compassionate, peaceful, and loves and just wants to be loved.
Men are usually tough and independent, so they most times aren’t looking for a completely hard woman.
They want a woman who is very much in touch with her feminine side, a woman who is comfortable with her sensuality and knows how to express it.
The power that lies within the feminine energy can’t fully be exhausted, and that is why it is one of the things that makes a man weak for a woman.
11. A woman who has it all together:
Don’t get me wrong, I didn’t say a woman who has everything figured out.
I said a woman who has it all together.
This woman carries her burdens well and faces life’s challenges with grace.
She’s an independent woman who has her own life and is passionate about life, work, or other noble causes.
She’s not perfect or extraordinary, but she knows how to manage herself and has amazing traits, such as the ability to understand and manage emotions, be true to herself, and not feel pressured to be who she’s not.
These traits are not only appealing, but they’re also incredibly attractive and inspiring.
One thing about all of these traits is that not only do they make a woman a man’s weakness, but they also, in most cases, make a woman a better version of herself.
Ultimately, different men may be attracted to different qualities, but the ones mentioned above are some common ones that most men find irresistible.