Being a woman that a man is afraid to lose is not just about how you look or how you act.
It’s about how you present yourself to him and how you make him feel about himself when he’s around you.
It’s about making him think of the future with you in it and ensuring that he doesn’t take any chances with his heart because he knows that if he loses you, his life will never be the same again.
Here are tips on how to be a woman he is afraid to lose:
How To Be a Woman He is Afraid to Lose
1. Be his best friend
If you want to make a man afraid to lose you, you need to be his female best friend.
What does that mean?
Am I saying you should replace his friends—male and female?
That’s not what I’m saying.
Being his best friend and not just his girlfriend means that he should feel like he can tell you anything and trust you with his secrets.
He should feel like he is able to share his deepest feelings with you and that there is no judgment or criticism involved in that process.
Isn’t that how we feel with our best friends?
That we can tell them anything and expect not to be judged?
Of course, we expect them to be honest with us even when it hurts but then, we know we can be ourselves with them and open up to them.
If you can be this to him, he won’t want to lose you, except he doesn’t know the real deal.
2. Be happy
Being a happy woman is a key to making a man not want to lose you.
You might be thinking, “But I’m not happy.” And that’s okay.
But you can be happy as long as you are willing to put in the work.
Let’s talk about happiness.
Happiness is not something that just happens—it’s an emotion that comes from within you and radiates out into the world around you.
Happiness is intentional.
You have to decide to be positive in this negative world.
I’m not saying you should fake it or be upbeat all the time, because that’s not even realistic.
But that you should make your happiness your responsibility.
There is nothing more attractive than a woman who knows how to be happy.
And that’s why being happy is so important—because when people want to be around them happy people—including your man.
If you’re always sad, angry, frustrated, and complaining, those emotions are contagious—and nobody wants that kind of negativity in their lives, especially your partner.
3. Don’t be clingy or overbearing
If you want to be a woman he is afraid to lose, you need to know how to give him the space he needs while still keeping him close.
Because one of the biggest turn-offs for a man is clinginess or overbearing behavior.
You might think that the more time you spend with him and the more attention you give him, the better.
But this is so not true!
Yes, you’ve been together for a while and you love him, but that doesn’t mean you should smother him.
If you’re always around him or constantly trying to get his attention, no matter where he is or what he’s doing, he’ll start feeling suffocated.
Instead, give him some space—by not texting him all the time, keeping your relationship in perspective and not thinking about it too much (especially when it comes to things like marriage), and by allowing yourself to have other friends who aren’t him.
This will make him feel like he can breathe, and make him realize that there are other people who are important to you besides him, thus making him more likely to want to keep you around.
4. Bring something to the table
Bringing something to the table means that you are going to be contributing and not just taking.
You are going to be bringing your presence, interests, ideas, goals, finances and skills and whatever you have to offer the relationship.
When you have so much to bring to the table, a man will know you’re not in his life to add to his responsibilities but to enrich his life, and he would be a fool to miss that.
5. Be smart and witty but not in an annoying way
Men like smart women.
Apart from the fact that it makes them feel good about themselves when they’re with someone who has a brain, they want someone who will challenge them intellectually and emotionally.
Smart women also tend to be witty, which is another thing men love about them.
It’s fun to see someone who can keep up with your jokes and come at you with some of their own.
Also, witty women know how to handle themselves in any situation, and men trust them more because of it.
If a guy feels like he has to “hold your hand” through every interaction (or even worse, if he feels like he needs to protect you), he won’t feel comfortable being himself around you and no one wants that.
However, don’t overdo it.
Being too witty can be a turn-off if you’re not careful.
You don’t want to come across as someone who’s constantly trying to one-up everyone else or who doesn’t take anything seriously.
Instead, use your wit as a tool that allows you to connect with your man on a deeper level by helping him see the funny side of things and yourself.
6. Look good
I know they say, “Don’t judge a book by its cover.”
But in the case of men and women, this is exactly what you should do.
I mean, come on, you don’t expect me to say that looks don’t matter because you know they do.
Even for woman, looks are important to you and you wouldn’t want to be with someone you don’t find physically attractive.
So, don’t think I’m trying to objectify women by saying you need to look good to be irresistible to your man.
Because it’s true that men are attracted to women who look good.
If you look good, he might never get another chance with someone as attractive as you again.
This doesn’t mean that you have to spend hours on end getting ready every morning or be a supermodel.
It just means you need to take care of yourself and make sure that when he looks at you or sees pictures of you online or in person, he thinks, “Wow! She looks amazing! That’s my babe!”
Anyways, with men, you can never tell.
You can be all of these and a man will act like a jerk.
However, this doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you or that you are not a high-value woman.
Remember, your worth doesn’t reduce based on the inability of someone to see it.
When it comes to dating, it’s not enough to be an amazing woman; you need to be with a guy who knows your worth and wouldn’t want to let you go.