12 Signs A Guy Has Never Had A Girlfriend

The fact that there are still guys who have never had a girlfriend may be surprising, but it is true.

They may be few, but they very much exist.

If you are in a relationship with or about to start one with someone who has never had a girlfriend before, you may notice some weird or even funny things about them.

Below are a few other signs you may notice in a guy who has never had a girlfriend.

12 Signs A Guy Has Never Had A Girlfriend: 

1. He Acts Nervous

Signs A Guy Has Never Had A Girlfriend

Just as it is with everything we are approaching for the first time, the feeling of nervousness can not be taken away.

He may have butterflies in his stomach or be anxious about meeting you, but this can be a sign that he has never had a girlfriend.

When a guy has never had a girlfriend, he will feel nervous about getting close to a lady and the possibility of a relationship starting.

You may even notice his nervousness, depending on his personality and how great he is at hiding it.



2. He Is Clueless

One of the ways to know a guy is naive and has never been in a relationship is his level of knowledge about things that have to do with relationships.

A man who has been with a woman or women in the past is already familiar with the ropes and how things are done.

But a guy who has never been in a relationship, on the other hand, is completely unaware of even the most basic things.

He does not know the things he’s supposed to know, the right things to say, and the right places to take you.

It’s almost as if he is from another planet.

His level of clueless depends on factors like how informed he is about things that have to do with relationships and how many people around him are in relationships.

But no matter how knowledgeable he is, his lack of experience will be seen sometimes.



3. He Tells You

Signs A Guy Has Never Had A Girlfriend

Sometimes, you do not have to look for signs because the guy will tell you by himself.

He may directly tell you or imply it in his conversations.

When this happens, do not disbelieve him simply because you do not think it is possible for him to never have been in a relationship.

It is very possible.

Instead, try to understand why he has never been in a relationship.

Maybe he was too focused on his studies or career, or maybe he is more cautious and prefers to take things slow.

Whatever the reason may be, respect that and not force him into a relationship right away. 




4. He’s awkward on the first date.

Another way to know a first-timer is by his level of confidence and mastery on the first date.

If he has been in a relationship before, then he very likely has gone on many dates and knows how things work.

But a man who has never had a girlfriend is different because he is not quite sure how things work.

He may act awkward and restless, trying to get things right and eventually getting them all wrong.

He might even be so intimidated by you that he wouldn’t dare make the first move. 

Be patient with him and try to understand his anxiety.

Showing empathy will help him relax and feel more comfortable as things progress.

Be gentle, understanding, and supportive throughout the entire process, and soon enough, he’ll find his footing. 



5. He’s not a great communicator.

Signs A Guy Has Never Had A Girlfriend

A guy who has never had a girlfriend may find it difficult to express himself verbally.

If you are the first person he is dating, you may find out that he hardly communicates and expresses himself.

You may be wondering why this is so.

It is because he just does not know how to go about that because he has not done it before.

With time, he may get more comfortable and verbally expressive.

But at the start, that may not be the case.



6. Obvious cues go over his head.

When a man dates one or two women, he gets familiar with how women think and understands their cues.

The longer you date a man, the less time you have to spend explaining your body language and indirect statements.

He just understands with time and picks cues easily.

This makes it easy to spot a guy who has never had a girlfriend before.

He is blind to cues.

When you say or do certain things subtly, expecting him to get the message, he does not.

Obvious cues go over his head because he is not familiar with women’s communication.



7. He is too eager for commitment.

Signs A Guy Has Never Had A Girlfriend

Another thing that characterizes a guy who has never had a girlfriend is the excitement and eagerness to commit.

It’s almost like a little child about to try a new exercise or challenge.

He is eager to make things official with you and start a new journey of love.

The whole relationship world is new to him, and he just can not wait to explore it.

He knows that you are the right one for him, and he does not hesitate to show it.

You can easily spot such an attitude in a guy who has never been in a relationship before.

It’s almost like being on cloud nine all the time, wanting nothing more than to show you off and make things official with you. 



8. He doesn’t mention any past relationships.

One of the signs that can let you know that a man has never had a girlfriend is that in all your conversations with him, he never mentions an ex.

If he never makes references to a past relationship or an ex he has, it may not be because he is keeping it away from you.

It could be because he has never had an ex, to begin with. 

He is genuinely excited about being in a relationship and getting the opportunity to have his first girlfriend. 

It may just be because he does not have any. 



9. He Makes Silly Mistakes

Signs A Guy Has Never Had A Girlfriend

A man who has never had a girlfriend is very likely to make silly mistakes with a lady.

If he is signifying interest in starting a relationship with you, do not expect him to be perfect.

He may forget to do the most basic things and make the most unexpected mistakes.

But these are not exactly his fault.

He just has zero experience.

The good thing is that he’s willing to learn and takes your advice very seriously. 

He listens intently and tries to take it all in, so don’t be too hard on him. 



10. His Enthusiasm Is Over The Roof

You can tell a guy has never had a girlfriend before by how excited he is to have one.

His enthusiasm and happiness may seem a little overboard for just a relationship.

But this is because he is excited to go on a journey he has never been on before.

People lose their excitement when they have done something time and time again, but when it’s their first time, their adrenaline level is usually very high.

Don’t be too surprised when he does things that seem out of the ordinary. 

It’s simply a sign that he is a newbie in the dating game and still has to learn the ropes. 



11. He Is Insecure

Another sign a man has never had a girlfriend is insecurity.

His level of insecurity and jealousy may seem unreasonable and unnecessary to you because he does not want you to divert your energy to anyone else.

But it may just be because it is his first time.

He wants all the love for himself alone and gets restless whenever he sees anything that seems to “threaten” his place in your life.

He may not even be aware of his behavior, and that is why it is important for you to let him know how he makes you feel. 

Talk to him about it and try to understand the root cause of his insecurity. 

Reassure him that you are devoted to the relationship, but make sure that he understands boundary setting and respecting your personal space. 



12. Unrealistic Romantic Expectations

Signs A Guy Has Never Had A Girlfriend

Another way to know that a guy has never had a girlfriend is by his overly romantic and idealistic expectations.

Because he has never had one before, he may see a girlfriend as a magical personality that comes to change his life in dramatic ways.

If a guy has unreasonable expectations of a potential girlfriend and what he wants his relationship to be like, it can be a sign that he has never been in an actual relationship before.

These signs may not apply to everyone because everyone is different, but they are great pointers to the fact that a guy has not had sufficient experience in love and relationships.

The best and most accurate way to find out is by asking or starting a conversation about it.

Signs can be misleading because situations differ and people are different, but you can not go wrong asking questions.

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